Just dropped by your post Blueboy and didn't want to leave without saying something.

Sounds like you had a really rough night. It must be so hard to see someone you love beat themselves up like this and there is little you can do about it. I have seen in several posts where Sandi2 explains that she went through this stage of remorse as well so it sounds like this is part of the process although I am sure that doesn't make it any easier.

Hang in there. IMHO she probably needs to feel this way if she is ever going to forgive herself.


Me - 47
H - 45
D-16
M - 6 years
Separated - May 16

Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')