Hi Feyth, wow that's interesting that they would have that category and reject on that basis. I can honestly say that I wouldn't date someone who was still M. To me, if they haven't worked through the process of D and are truly single, I'm not interested in dating (though they may be lovely people, they just wouldn't be at a place where I would date them.) That's JMHO of course and we are all different.

A factor for me (since my own experience of infidelity) is that I wouldn't want to be a 'third' person in someone else's M - a factor in whether they ultimately decide to D or not....

So, what are your plans now Sweetie? Xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus