It's so amazing what they can come up with. They have to paint themselves as the victims to justify their actions. I feel so very, very sorry for both you and his mother. She must be as devastated as you are.

Yesterday, WH started accusing me of alienating his children from him (he's said this before). I told him he has made up so many lies about me to OW that he's starting to believe them himself. He claimed his son is visiting now and didn't when I was there (he lives next door!). That is an absolute untruth, and I reminded him about how often SS would come by. He said he couldn't remember.

It's like a mental disorder, and I hope someone will research it at some point so we can find out what's really going on.


M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17