Ok, so I know she's trying to play me to get something here. There's the guilt card of don't hurt D by forcing her into the street. The veiled threat of what I did being illegal, even though it's a joint phone account. And the pushing to get to an admission that I believe our M is still fixable.
I hesitate to tell her she cannot take my D from the house bc of the wrath it incurs and the uncertainty of how she will react. But in this case I don't see a choice. I think I need to inform her that 1) she can't just take D, 2) she is welcome to sleep elsewhere besides mbr and 3) i don't think that divorce fixes our problems.
Tried to validate but she seems to want me to do the talking. I think I keep it short and to the point. How do I address of she keeps trying to get me to say this is fixable?
Open to thoughts on all this. Not really freaked out like I have been in the past. More thoughtful than anything right now.
Me39 M11 : T13 D9 BD 5/31/16 In House S until 6/21/17 Divorced 10/5/18
