A WW? (3)

[lt0402]

D and her friends are winding down and getting settled in for their sleepover. I'm in the mbr brushing my teeth getting ready for bed. W decides it's time to talk and comes in.

W says "what is your plan? I can't do this anymore. We sit in the same house, don't talk, and as soon as D is in bed you go to bed."

I tell her it's her choice that we don't talk. W says she's tried to talk to me this week and I've avoided her. I say I'm more than happy to have a conversation with her and she says we haven't had a conversation in 5yrs, what's the point now.

She says that she hasn't talked to "college boy", as she's now calling him, in 2 weeks. I can check it if I want. I tell her I have no desire to and haven't done that since the last blowup. She also warns me that what I'm doing borders on illegal bc I took her social security # and went into her phone account. I informed her that there's a shared login for the Verizon account that in no way is her ssn.

She then says we need to talk about this "plan" that I'm supposed to have. I ask what W means by a "plan". She says one option is she moves out, but she'd have to take D with her. She says that neither of us want D having to live in an apartment. I ask her what the other option is and she says that I move out (with a stern face). She says it's not healthy for D to live in a house with parents who don't talk and she won't stand for it.

W then asks if I have other options. I tell her she is aware of my other option and I don't believe divorce is the answer to our problems. She asks what the other option is and I tell her I'm not going to repeat what she already knows. She says "marriage counseling? What good would that do?"

Luckily, D knocks on the door to ask a question and W leaves. Too tired to deal with this right now. W trying to pull me into saying this is fixable again for some reason.

Also, I can't believe she offered me leaving as the best option. I'm relatively level right now, but that's so over the top ridiculous. She would like to continue the conversation tomorrow. Fun...