"If she wants to come back together she needs to put 100% of the effort into that, not me. I would much rather not interact with her if she keeps being negative and complaining, and right now that's all she is doing. I am waiting for the positive smiling wife to come back, not the person that possessed her body lately."
You do understand that this shows more arrogance on your part. She left you, yet you create a standard that she has to meet in order to come back to you. She's gone. She's her own person. The person who she is now just might be the person she really is. Your non-acceptance of that shows that you are concentrating on her than on you. Everyone who has saved their M has learned to let go and accept the way their spouse has become with no control on the part of the LBS.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
