Zues, it is confusing.

Thank you so much for your wisdom and inspiration as always.

I have read and re read yours and others posts many many times.

I will never initiate any physical contact with him again. If he initiates any physical contact with me I will step back.

I do think I need to remain honest, I've always worn my heart on my sleeve and I want to always be that person. Just not with him!


Me - 44 Husband - 47
D20, S18
BD - Aug 2013
Moved out - Jan 2014
OW discovered Jan 2014