Thank y'all for your replies. I appreciate you.

S15's birthday is today. ExW has him. I will be taking s15, d21, her bf, grand-baby, and d20 out to Buffalo Wild Wings for dinner on Sunday night.

Ok, it was not a mystery to me that ExW married om less than 2 weeks after our divorce was official. During our divorce mediation ExW referred to om (who has lived with her since the beginning of 2016)as her "fiancé".

She also told me early on after the divorce papers were served that om was "dying", which was why she wanted the divorce rushed thru. She mentioned problems with his liver (he's a drinker). Frankly, I don't believe her, but who knows?

From SiL's report, ExW told her father (FiL) that with the re-marriage she is now on his life insurance policy, beneficiary of his pension (I don't think she understands that how much she will received from the pension can vary greatly depending on how single om set it up.) So this seems like a reason why ExW moved so quickly on the re-marriage.

Om told FiL that he likes ExW's kids (my kids! mad ) more than he likes his own 2 adult daughters, which is why he is disinheriting them. I'm sure there is a story there, that I don't want to know. I previously told the story from this past February, s15 pulled a knife and threatened om, so if his relationship is worse with his own daughters, yikes!!!

The whole story just feels yucky to me. But not my sandbox. Trying to keep the focus on me, my better health letting me start to exercise again, and s15. Ok, and holding grand-baby whenever I can. laugh


Me-54 yrs; W: 50 yrs
4 kids- D: 22,20,19; S:15
"Trial" Divorce: 04/14 - 6/14
Separated: 06/2013- divorced 08/2016

“The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.” War and Peace