I may be interpreting Mr. Bond's posting the wrong way, but I don't think I am. I don't think Mr. Bond is saying to move on. He's saying to move forward. Moving forward is living your life to the fullest and yet, you can leave the door ajar. It means that you don't just sit there in the same place that the spouse has left you and just wait and wait and don't experience life. It means you live your life and go out there and enjoy yourself and do the things you've not done in a long time or you learn new things as you walk the path. This also doesn't mean you have to date someone, but you certainly could meet some new people who enjoy the same interests as you. That's why we emphasize GAL here...to keep people moving forward and learning how to keep the focus on themselves and their children.
My interpretation of moving on is doing just that...it's over and you are moving on and not looking back.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
