Cherry, I saw a fun little sign recently, and I think that a lot of us here can relate. It said:

"Dear Karma, I have list of people you missed."

It made me smile, in a Mona Lisa kind of way. : )

Hang in there, beautiful. Rise above all of this BS, take the high road at every opportunity, and be the best mother and person you know how to be. It's not about him any more. This is about you and the kind of person you want to be and the life you want to live. Create it.

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16