In the kitchen I notice there's a large, empty wine bottle in the fridge, and a wine glass drying in the drying rack. Unsure why W is drinking every evening and keeping such weird hours.
lt0402 - I think that one thing that most of us lose sight of is that our W are not necessarily the rational beings we used to know. They are on their own journey that has it's own struggles. In some fashion especially for those on the MLC road from what I've read it's an incredibly bumpy, painful ride through the fog with no real destination in sight.
She may well be more scared than you are. You're putting a plan together, you're getting more confident on your own journey and you have the fine people here to support you. She's got the fire-starter brigade, OM and a bottle of wine as her guides.
Think of that the next time that she seems evil or thoughtless but know that it's a journey she has to take on her own. Your paths may cross in the fog or when you both emerge from the fog you may be in different places.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells