There were a few points in there where I felt you were being quite dismissive, but I do believe this was not your intent.
We are seldom dismissive of the posters, we can and will be fully dismissive of superficial, "I know...but" justification of bad habits, or glossing over of answers types of posts.
We want you guys to put as much effort in as we are...with the understanding that you guys are also going through hell so there is some lee way.
Eric won't be dismissive of you, but he might be about a portion of your post.
"I wish she would just listen to me" After awhile, and yes while it is a vent...we tend to swat those down. I wish I had a pony.
We only get dismissive of posters when they won't work on themselves and tend to try spread their non DB ideas to other posters, who really don't need that crap. Can I say crap? Crap crap crap! Heh not censored.
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