Confused on What to Do

[CT1118]

CT118,

I have been reading through your thread and wanted to offer you some advice but I feel I am just too new and wouldn't know what to say.

Thanks for the advice. I am already questioning some of the stuff I wrote in here because its public and my W is beginning to snoop. I really think my snooping may slow down or end soon. Now that I have told her what I know, I actually feel more at ease if that makes sense.

Eagle11 - please, you and I are contemporaries. Post anything on my thread, even if it is hello. If you want to read where I was at the start I have like 4 threads on the newcomer forum.

Yes, it makes perfect sense. I wanted to confront my W when I first got to newcomer's in July. Advice was mixed as to do that or not, but advice was unified on 1.have a goal & a plan for it and 2. you do what you feel you have to do. So I did confront her and I felt better. Does not mean that is the right thing to do every time.

The snooping will stop at some point. You will just loose either the taste for it or the endurance, or both. Its not healthy and, this is the pill to swallow, it really is not about that OM. It just isn't.

I'm here my friend. Do you for you.