If I were you I would find a job and try to hide as much money as possible, preferably in cash out of the bank where it can't be traced.
This might not be legal.
You can keep it separate though.
Originally Posted By: Cld
In court she might say that she was tired of supporting you for all those years and that you didn't contribute to the marriage (like watching the kids for 24 hours a day is easy) and that you are lazy and don't want to work. This is exactly what happened to me and you know what? The judge believed her and judges nowadays don't give male spouses support so don't count on that at all!
The law is the law and if support is required, the judge has to order it.
While there may be some gender bias, the system has tried to make it a little bit more equal...
Originally Posted By: Cld
The only positive thing is that if you find a job and your wife makes a lot more money than you, you will have to pay very little in child support because believe me, she will get custody, not you!
This statement is very inappropriate. While this may be what happened to CLD, it is not what happens to everyone.
Many men here have gotten custody of the children. If not full custody then 50/50.
We are here to provide the wisdom of our experiences and support.
We are not here to make blanket generalizations that may possibly create a fear situation in people. Or to look into our crystal ball and tell them exactly what their future will hold.
Cld...please be careful with your generalizations.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
