What should I be doing (Working toward D 9)

[Coconut]

Zeus,

You can speak your opinion, I appreciate the thoughts. I don't see anything in my W that shows that she has or will have any interest in saving our M. She has stated that she is not willing to "under the microscope", is not willing to be transparent and is not willing to do what it takes to go no contact.

I set a very clear boundary with her, she very clearly broke those boundaries over and over, and I have accepted that we are getting a D because of her un willingness to do what it would take to make our M work.

I'm not sure how that makes me a walk away spouse. Is it because I'm not willing to live in the same house with her? or is it simply because I'm moving 2 hour flight or 11 hour drive away?