What should I be doing (Working toward D 9)

[Zues126]

What you think you want, your emotions and thoughts through this emotional process, your fantasy of how you think your life will be, and the pursuit of personal happiness are not good guides.

What do your values and beliefs say about preserving a marriage and a family?

You speak with the selfishness and impatience of a walk away spouse, and I'm not admiring your detachment or emotional healing (which is a front over some wounds you haven't even begun to feel yet).

After what I've been through and seen on these forums I can't sit quietly and support this. It is your life to live, but this is literally my forum to speak my voice and cast my vote for the society I want to live in.