Listen to HaWho...they will try all kinds of things to see what you are doing...
Second...
Get a job. Even if it is part time. Many reasons for this. It will give you time away from the boys and out of the house, which you need.
It will give you your own money since she has apparantly had some nasty thoughts about HER money and how it is spent.
It is something you are going to have to do anyway if this goes down the toilet so why not start now? It will give you some control over YOUR life.
Third...don't get any crazy ideas about making it look like you are dating, going to date because it worked in the past to get her to come back. It might. If it does, you will be right back here in a few years...
I am willing to be there was a "false start" on this MLC at the time of her first EA. You don't want to keep repeating that.
Keep posting.
Stop snooping.
Focus on you and the boys.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
