Hi Feyth, I'm sorry you've been feeling lonely. But I would caution against 'filling the void' with someone of the opposite sex. Maybe separate things out here. Do you still hope to reconcile with your H? If not, you may want to consider filing...it's always up to you of course. But resolving that is a different thing to the loneliness.

For me, I never regretted not dating whilst still M...I don't think it's a good plan to still be processing D matters and feelings with another guy in the mix...

JMHO of course....and I always admire your energy and progress btw....it's infectious xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus