what specifically you are not buying into about what Surfer said b/c of your kids?
He's been saying let her go. I agree, and I think I'm letting her go.
He's also said, "Life is better separate." And I agree, the best chance for our R improving -- if at all -- is for us to be separate.
It just doesn't feel like it's the best thing for my kids right now. Yes, things are very cool and distant between me and my W as we live together. But we do not fight at all, and we coordinate daily activities smoothly. So, from the kids perspective, splitting up the family will be a bewildering, confusing shake-up to their stable world.
I can't get over that. But I think I'm slowly getting there.
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final
