Jim, nothing drives anyone to have an A. There are many ways to approach marital problems and having an A is not on any list of reasonable options.

WH treated me really bad and I didn't have an A. It wasn't even an option for me.


M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17