MLC, WAW or WW?? Who really knows? Help...pls

[ROE]

Well maybe I messed up?

I have had all of the disrespect I can handle and I decided that I should agree with W for a change. She threw out her D card on me when I was hurt and upset. But this time I told her that I agreed with her about the need to D. It was not a false threat on my part. I've been struggling with this now for a while. I've known for a while that not only is D unavoidable from my side because we live in a no fault state but because I think there's been so much damage inflicted in W's wake that I'm just not sure how to move forward anymore. Would I still reconcile? I'm not sure. I won't based on her actions. Not that she's concidering it but she shows no inclination to want to change or R. So, nothing has improved just more damage has been inflicted by W. Maybe I have reached detachment? I'm not sure? But I just don't want to continue any longer. I barely have the energy to survive the D process.

I've reached a milestone today. Who knows maybe this the 1st step toward healing.?

ROE