Yes, I believe the social GAL is really important and I'm not for a moment suggesting dating. I'm suggesting things that extend you beyond your comfort zone and help you meet new people and enjoy life whatever your W may be doing.

That's not about your current circle of contacts. For me GAL has included salsa class, bookstore volunteering, divorce support group, yoga class, ladies social group, calligraphy group, tai chi etc. I've just signed up for a 'borrow your doggy' scheme too. Planning to do a little dog walking. Not dated anyone (yet) but have met some nice people and done some fun things.

Here is my challenge to you Huddy. This month, try one new social GAL thing that could become a regular event for you....what do you have to lose? smile xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus