Honestly, I don't think I'm up for a "talk" but I don't want to simply avoid a difficult situation. No, I don't think that she's suddenly come to her senses and wants to come back to the marriage, not for a second! I really think she's had a few days to reflect on how mean and spiteful she was to me last week and wants to find a way to smooth things over so she can feel less guilty and less like the bad guy in this.
I don't really feel like engaging with her, so I think I will politely decline her offer to chat. I will be too tired. Or, I may ask her what she wants to discuss, and if it's not our S, finances, scheduling, or her moving out, I'm not interested.
Hello CA27,
I have to agree with Sandi about discontinuing MC. If MC is only asking you how you feel after hearing W spew, it isn't productive. Michele has a video regarding when couples therapy is a bad idea. Email me and I can send you the link.
If you don't want to talk to her, don't. How you handle ongoing conversations is crucial.
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