Originally Posted By: Eagle11

I think I have been getting detachment wrong and getting it confused with no contact (there is so much to learn). I guess you all are saying that detachment is more about me taking care of myself and making my self happy? Getting myself to better place in life?


Detachment isn't a noun....it's a verb..

It isn't a decision that you make, it's a way of life, or a state of mind...

You live through this...really live.

All the things that you thought that you would never do, yet dreamed of doing...

Detachment, isn't words, as much as actions toward your future...


Doesn't mean that you don't love, don't care, don't want this to work out....

It means that you are okay, either way....