I see everyone mentioning "detachment" in their posts, and thread titles lately. It's definitely needs to be done, but I think many posters these days think "detachment" means stop living your WAS and forget about them.
It's not what it means, and I guess the action of detachment can be pretty confusing.
My view on detachment, and I am sure Mach can probably define it a little better than me.
But detachment to me is not having your actions and reactions being attached everything the WAS says or does. Or having your WAS's feeling dictate your own. it means stepping outside the situation, looking at yourself and what you need to do to be the best you.
