Good to hear from you too, I've been keeping an eye on your thread and you've had your fair share of ups and downs but you're doing great. I've always looked to your situation for inspiration.
Your question is a tough one to answer and I've given myself time to think about it. The honest answer is this, I always think I there will be a part of me that wants my W and my M back and if she showed true remorse I would give it a go but it would have to be a very long and slow process.
I can't say if I could ever trust her again and whether I would be living in constant fear that at any point the ILYBINILWY could happen again?
All I can say for certain is if this scenario was to happen and I didn't at least try I think I would regret it for the rest of my life.
