Long time no speak brother. I commend you for giving W and the M another opportunity. You have always been a determined and understanding person, and have done your best to make it all happen and to R, you should be proud of that. I continue to wish you the best of luck in whatever you decide, you helped me when I was at my worst and for that I am very grateful.
As for me, I have my own place, a new position at work, things with W are better than they were, I stopped getting into her business, I accepted that right now its not the right time for R, we should build on the friendship that her and I both hurt, and work as a team for our little ones. I don't know if this is the right approach, I haven't given up on R, which could be a problem, as someone on this thread mentioned that in letting go, you'll find your answer, so I am working on that. Again, I wish you the best my friend, you truly deserve it.
God Bless
M: 34 W: 33 S: 7 S: 14 months BD: 6/2015 Separation: 6/2015 Back and Forth between Home and Moms
