Maybe some social GAL Huddy? I still sense in your posts....once I know what my W is doing, I'll know what I'm doing.

I understand the whole limbo thing (been there for a good while) but that's no reason to put your life on hold in any sense (other than choosing not to file and standing for your M.

Where would you be heading if your W was never coming back? Short of dating (which I presume is off limits as you hope to save your M) what would you be doing with your life?

A little 2x4, but it's my fluffy sledgehammer Huddy grin x

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus