Eric's questions are going to supersede any post I make to you. In this I bow to his wisdom and experience. I think you may have just found your mentor.
I have met Eric twice in my life and I can honestly say he is one of the best friends I have the honor of having. He is the one you want for this.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK