I read your 7:39 PM post in the park where I was with my kids. I was thinking of a reply on the walk home. Got the kiddos into pajamas and then sat down to reply. Now this! Let us know what happens.
You just stirred the pot. I wonder if she'll go dark for a couple of days before responding. Best of luck, brother.
M: 51, W: 47 T: 22 M: 15 S17, S13, S12 BD: Jan '16 W files: Oct '16 D final: June '18