Confused on What to Do

[Eagle11]

Ok, I might have screwed up but I just told my W everything I know. I did it calmly and I told her I love her and I just wanted her to get better. I told her I wasn't going to try to stop her affair but I loved her and she needs help.


I think what made me say something was that I asked about her work bonus and she said all I care about is money. She then said the money should be all hers anyway since all I do is raise the kids. She also criticized me in other ways too. I told her I was going to bed but then I went back into her room and told her what I knew. She didn't say anything, but she was stunned. She asked how I knew and I told her cell phone records. I guess we will see how she takes this. I have a bad feeling she is going to be angry and may go for the divorce. I guess we will find out. I actually feel better though. I couldn't hold it in any longer. I truly hope she will get help and if that means we are not together then so be it.

Also, most of my talk with her was about the kids. I told her they need her and she hasn't been around for them. I told her if she doesn't get help then her relationship with them could be ruined.

I don't think I will bring it up anymore though. I think I will actually try to avoid her for awhile. Although that may be hard living in the same house.