My wife keeps asking how I'm doing. I'm not mean, but I keep our interaction brief per the rules and 180. When she asks how I'm doing, I always say fine. I never bring up our R or possible D. I'm not taking her bait. The EA/PA always feels like the pink elephant in the room. I'm so tempted to bring it up but she will never admit it. I'm tempted to have my own PA.
Things are still civil in the house compared to other horror stories I read. I just wonder what her end game is. My plan is to wait it out but...I have not mentioned it before but I'm tempted to file papers first. I think it would be a rude awakening for her. But if I'm wrong, I bust out early(poker term).
In regards to her EA/PA I wonder if she's in love or just playing the guy. She's had a history of text flirting with co-workers. I noticed she has a similar pattern and phrases with these guys. A playful flirty pattern that progresses. One of her catch phrases is, I love you more then you could possibly know. I've monitored her cell over the years and called her out when I thought it went to far. I stopped monitoring her cell 6 months ago. I wonder if the PA is a result of that or the new guy has a combination of low morals and game.
Downfall of society. It has become socially acceptable to have girls nights out and 'work husbands' then you throw in Facebook and texting programs. It's a cheaters paradise.
