I was looking at my wife the other day, I feel like I don't recognize her. Lots of makeup, new style of clothes, new eye glasses and new varying hairstyles. And worst of all, shoes now have a high heel. I realize people change but I don't know. She has cut off most of her old female friends. Her one female friend who she has known under a year has this same look. I would call it a sex appeal, look at me look. It's as my wife is copying her look. Speaking of her new friend, I guess they have similar backgrounds. Both had alcoholic wild fathers that did as they please. The mothers did what they had to do to keep family together. Dealing with issues was always secondary to saving face. Just another piece of the puzzle.