Mach, you're right. That was poorly worded lol. Do it when it's natural is def what I was looking for.
Well, slight setback today. Took my therapist's advice and asked an open ended question. She did open up a little more, but the problem is I responded too often. It's true that there were more things going on than usual today. S had his audiologist appointment, and he passed easily. I faxed the paperwork to the city, and ASAP the little guy will have an appt w/their therapist. Also, later in the day W ran over something, got a flat tire and had to buy a used one prior to dropping off S.
Still, I felt like I just chatted too much. No big deal. Learn, change and keep moving. One so so day isn't going to ruin anything. Just because the campaign started with a slog through the mud doesn't mean the battle is lost.
Cnut, I certainly wasn't thinking that far ahead. What I was hoping to accomplish was to continue creating an atmosphere where we both begin to become more comfortable with one another again. Perhaps I should stick to verbal communication, but I think if something were to happen organically it could help things.
Me: 35 W: 32 S: 4 T: 6 M: 4 Physical Separation official: 5/21 Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son
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