Welcome Job is right…MLC takes a while It is a good thing to protect the bank accounts and credit cards,
If you notice he is spending or charging..you may want to get accounts separated The MLCer becomes someone else,,
The once responsible H spends everything..some will create debt I know it is a very difficult time at the start of it because it is a sudden change in the H we once knew so well
they spend..some cheat, they go out and party, gamble some dress funny or dye their hair..get new cars or motorcycles tattoos …
they seem to revert to a younger age..may start to criticize the spouse and blame us for everything..But it is not our fault it is a midlife crises,,their crises … some say the MLC comes from unresolved childhood issues and I believe that
The best thing you can do is begin therapy for yourself get support from other women sleep, exercise, rest, pray if you have a relationship with God try to eat and take good care of yourself I promise you…it gets easier no matter what they decide to do some stay in the home some leave it is probably harder to live with the MLCer then living alone keep posting we have all been there-
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
