Completely agree with you Gump, I see those same qualities in my W. I think she is finally realizing who she should be and it's not the person I want to fight for. I don't think she's ever going to return to the person she was with me, and that's okay. I became someone other than who I am too.
I've accepted we had a good run, and that it is really time to move on and find something more in my life. Whether that involves another person down the road or not, I don't know, but I feel so much better now that I have come to this realization and have let go of all of my fears and concerns!
_____________________ Me:44 W:44 Together 22 Married 21 S 19 D 17, 15, 15. 7 EA/PA suspected 3/30/2016 EA/PA confirmed 4/5/2016 ILYBINILWY 4/5/2016 WW asked for Divorce 5/8/2016 (WW has backtracked)