Guys, here's what I'm saying. You guys believe your W is in a coma and your WS is a different person. That means your W might wake up.

What I'm realizing is that my WW is the real person, not the W. The W I had was a WW who was trying really hard for many years to be a decent W. But she was always the WW inside. She has deep-seated psychological illness. Not the kind that you need a straitjacket for, but the kind that sets you up for self-centered, unhealthy, dysfunctional relationships. She wasn't a healthy person who went wayward. She was unhealthy all her life.

You keep fighting if you have something worth fighting for. Not in my case.


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final