I have the joint account that we share as long as she doesn't drain it. I have some money saved that she doesn't know about. My parents actually have it and it would be enough to get me started.
If we end up going through a D, I have already decided that the kids will need to go to daycare (which she does not want) and I will get a job. Then once I have a job, the kids and I will move out.
M39, W36 T12, M10 S6,S2 Discovered EA 8/8 that started 7/31