SH, You are wonderful, just as you are. You are in no way a bad neighbor, friend, or anything else! I am grateful to hear from you anytime you are in the neighborhood, but if you're out of town for a few days, that's perfectly OK.

we all have busy lives.

I've been busy, and I am knee-deep in legal documents yet again, but I am off to go raspberry picking with H-friend at the moment.

I will get back here tonight, hopefully, and do a bit of journaling. I hope that everyone is having nice day. It's a bit rainy here today, but it's nice to have a break from the heat, and we so need the water. It's been a very dry summer in the northeast.

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16