So just another weekly post. There has been a little tension this week, but not horrible, horrible. I can tell they are talking about anger when she is meeting with her therapist as she has started using some new vocabulary when she justifies it later on when we discuss.

I have not made a lot more progress in Gottman's book and feel like things have kind of stalled out. Things are definitely better than when I first started posting, but the needle hasn't moved in several weeks.

There still have been no "I love you's" from either of us. But maybe that's for the best. In the past maybe we said things that we shouldn't have and if things improve it will one day be natural to say it and mean it and if they don't it's better not said.


Married: 15 yrs (anniversary on Aug 4th)
Kids: Boy (10) and Girl (7)
Age: 47