Newby here, desperate for some advice (thread 4)

[lt0402]

I'm at home trying to soak up as much kid time as I can before she blows it all up.

JR, I completely understand this. I find myself doing the same thing w/ my D bc of my fear around how I'll lose time w/ her in the future. I'm working to find a balance b/t GAL and that fear though, bc the other folks are right, we need to be less available to our Ws.

I bet you'll have a blast on your trip brother. Sounds like a great time and you should enjoy it and keep the thoughts about this situation to a minimum. Come back fully recharged and refreshed!