Just remember not to read only self help books. We can really get ourselves stuck in the situation very easily...
I have read your threads and I have to say that you seem pretty solid emotionally considering the things you have transitioned through in your life.
I do have a few questions.
Does you being transgender or your W identifing as "queer" (I think that is what you said) really have a lot of bearing on this situation?
I will tell you that I googled cisgender and queer and I don't really think I have a great grasp on the definitions.
I am by no means trying to be judgemental, I watched one of my son's friends, come out to his parents in his early teens and they threw him out. I could never understand how a parent could do that (even if they might prefer the situation be different).
I guess what I am saying is that for me, especially after watching what I watched, a person is a person, regardless of all of that. So if it is important information, could you please help me understand it better?
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
