Still here and need support 2

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WAW called this am to say that d8 was having sep anxiety when she dropped her off at school. we talked about it a bit and WAW said she wanted to do whatever is best for d8. I told her I wanted to say something but said nevermind and WAW nagged me to tell her what I wanted to say. I told her that I thought the best thing would d8 to have 2 strong parents who together overcome and become ever stronger in the R...
WAW said that d8 told her that WAW had planned this...at which point WAW said "no 8 yr old would come up with that" implying that it came from me. It didn't. I have told d8 that I still have hopes that we will be a family again but maybe I should just keep that to myself. It seems that d8 is struggling more with the situation than at first.
I also told WAW that I am willing to do anything so that d8 doesn't have to grow up in 2 separate households and WAW said that you can't force someone to do something. I want to try whatever it takes so there are no regrets.
WAW brother came to visit last night and we had a long talk and he backed me up and reinforced WAW issues.