I let her know that I felt like her asking me to go get yogurt in front of son put me in an awkward position, because while I don't want to play family, I don't want my son thinking I would rather watch TV than go get yogurt with him. I told her that if it a special occasion and she thinks I may want to go, to ask me privately so we can discuss.
What was her response to this?
She only said OK, no other response from her at all.
cbtdad, I don't think I want to play the wait and see. I'm really wanting (can't really say ready) to move on with life, if things change in the future, we could always reconnect later if it's in the cards. I'm really really excited about moving, and while I know I will still be excited in a year or two, I dread the thought of waiting.
it's often said it doesn't seem like I want to get divorced, and I would agree that I don't, but in many ways, I do feel as though I would be happier if I do. I'm not saying I couldn't be happy if I stay with my W, but I am not sure that I would be any less happy (after getting past the mourning of my M) on my own.
Again I'll say that if my W did everything she could to save our M, I would jump on board and do whatever I could to make it work, I just don't want to wait and see if she's going to do that. I don't think she is, she doesn't show any remorse or embarrassment about what she did, she doesn't think twice about bragging about her FF accomplishments and accepting accolades for them (it seems that if I had an A at the station, it would make me feel guilty if someone said something like I am such a great role model), so I don't think that we will ever find median ground to meet on.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized
