This new way of feeling for me seems to be holding. I have been able to look at what we have left like a business transaction. Some reason she has been holding off in giving me amounts for what I owe for kids bills so I asked her so send me a list. I am going to make up a list also and then we can just see what is left after cancelling out what each other owes.
This along with the start of the new school year has increased the communication. I am going to her place tonight to pick up a mattress for S7. In her replies to set a time up she keeps including her plans as for why certain times wont work. Too much info if you ask me. I don't want to know what she is up to.
I have been moving forward with the purchase of the house I am renting. I also had my babysitter quit as she no longer has access to a vehicle to get to my place in the mornings. So I asked my work if I could start the day 1.5 hours later to allow me the time to drop kids off at school in the morning. They said it should not be a problem. If that is OK it will save me some money. Plus it will give me more time with my boys.
Have a visit planned with my sister this weekend, going to try rock climbing. Also my friend has asked for us to set up a regular guys night.
Looks like S4 might be doing indoor soccer this winter. I imagine I will be too. So trying to keep up the GAL. I hope I can stay in this good place I am in right now.
Me late 30's W mid 30's T 15, M 10 S4, S7 ILYBNILWY June 2015 In house S July 2015 W rings off Oct 2015 My ring off Feb 2015 Separate houses June 2016
