What should I be doing (Working toward D 9)

[cbtdad]

And the pursuit and withdrawal game continues:) Lol
The more you withdraw she is going to pursue.
That's why I think it's imperative not to make any major decisions so soon
Because things have a way of changing. As you just noted just in a matter of a few days no less:)
I'm going to go back to what I told you weeks ago buddy. I would just continue to work on you and he man you want to become. There is no reason to rush to a new job and sell the house right away. Just my opinion.