Keep Wearing Wedding Band? [Thread #3]

[albac]

CT, it is a fair call and I'm under no illusions my W still has a massive hold on me depending on the day.

As an individual I think I am traveling very well compared to who I was. Regardless of if it has any affect on my W it makes me feel good and will help me going forward.

I am now as for as I have ever been in my life. I gym every morning and run at night this has gone a very long way to lift my confidence and even my W has mention a heap of times how good I look.

Anyway I guess I haven't really answered the question but I was happy with the person j was before my W left with the exception to letting myself go a bit which I have now sorted and then some. I am a caring person who would help anyone and would do anything for my family and still would. The only other thing I am changing is not letting my good nature turn me into a doormat.

I can be caring and still have a spine and I am realizing this. So I think I am very close to being the person I want to be. So maybe I'm just not compatible with my W who knows time will tell.