albac, ForGump - what Surfer said, he's on point. You really think saying, I fold, will make you feel better? No, you will still go through the same hurt/healing. Surfer further tells you, you yourselves are not thinking correctly at this time.
Surfer still hurts. I still hurt.
YOUR OLD MARRIAGE IS DEAD! It is dead gentlemen. What you focus on now must be new. New you. You know who the old guard are here - the people we seek and cry out to for the deepest, toughest, most provocative assistance? Who are they? They are us 2/5/10 years ago. You both answer this question. Do it now. Who do I want to be as an individual? I'm waiting...
"There is no more important fight than the one for ourselves. Keep on winning." Ginger1, Read her newbies. BD: Feb '16 D: Mar '17 Piecing: Putting the self back together was my piecing. S6
