Keep Wearing Wedding Band? [Thread #3]

[Surfer]

Also,

CT wrote about Stockholm Syndrome the other day. It really made me think. You see the WS has you in the basement - feeding you sh!t. Open the door and walk out. Leave them in there alone. Never go back.

Get outside have fun and stop trying to chase (be anxious, miss her). Plugging the leaks in your R. It won't work. Turn the tap on higher, or get more taps, don't worry about the leaks. What I mean is we don't want to be running around catching leaking water (trying to catch your WS's love - with a sieve - they are not giving it, yet we chase, beg, are needy, anxious etc). Carry on with this approach, but there is only a finite amount of water and soon it will all be gone and we are left crying in a puddle. Bo!!ocks to that. Turn the taps on in your life. GAL, have fun, see you for who you are and love yourself again. Love your old W and be proud you did and still do. Love your kids your friends etc.

Your WS is someone you don't recognise. Your W is in a coma. You hope she comes out. But don't be sad or down. Don't give up. If she was in a come would you? What would you advise a friend with a W in a coma? Mate, get your boots on we are going to go out and have fun. You'd keep on doing that.

Surfer.