JR,

"Going dim" and trying to be mysterious ... all seem silly to me. I like AP's point: what diff did things make? Probably none.

Call your kids every night because you love them.

Your W... what would you do w/ a housemate? Call her every night?

Actually -- forget what I said. Call MWD's people. Ask them what they would do. They probably know better than any of us in the forum.


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final